The science around this is fascinating.
“I love myself.”
“I am successful and abundant.”
“I am in a perfect relationship.”
These are the kinds of statements or affirmations that many self-help books, life coaches, and inspirational Instagram accounts encourage people to repeat to themselves over and over again, hoping to help them manifest better lives. Positive affirmations have been around for a long time—long before “the Law of Attraction” and the popular book The Secret. In fact, a French pharmacist in the 1800s popularized this therapeutic model with the development of something he called optimistic autosuggestions. But now, a growing body of research suggests that affirmations can cause some individuals more harm than good. […]
Source: Why Affirmations Don’t Always Work & What To Do Instead: An Optimism Expert Explains