It’s not the situation that causes pilikia; it’s your attitude toward it. You are in Hell Hotel and out of your kapu space. Check out now! Return to Pono, forgive yourself and go back to the hana (the practice, the work). Mahalo e pomaika’i pilikia. Kalana nui au. Accept, thank and bless (ho’oponopono) the pilikia as you cut its energy cord from your aura. This is how you transmute pilikia into Aloha.