It would be nice if there were a rule book on intimacy … some kind of a guide that would tell you when you’ve crossed the line. It would be nice if you could see it coming … and I don’t know how you fit it on a map.  You take it (intimacy) where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can.  And … as for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something that you have to define for yourself.